How to Not Fail at Dating People
The number one cause of an unsuccessful attempt at dating is the fear of rejection. It’s a pretty big fear and it keeps a lot of people from completely giving up on dating. It gets to the point that instead of even trying, the person will basically predetermine the rejection and not even bother. Life is full of rejection, it happens every day and to really expect to have a rejection free experience in anything is not logical and definitely not realistic.
So how can someone get over rejection? The sheer mathematical fact is this, the more you are rejected, and the higher the probability that the next time you won’t be rejected. It’s all based on the amount of tries that are attempted. Not with the same person, but with more than one person. Quantity! That’s why online dating produces a lot more successful unions; there are more people online.
To give up makes your chances drop to 0%. If you keep trying, you are always at a 50% chance of success as long as you keep the number of tries up. If you ask one person to date you and are rejected, then you have to try again to balance the equation. Even after 50 rejections, you simply have to try 50 more. Sounds bad right? Well if you find just one person then your success rate is 100% because you have achieved your goal.